Don’t waste your time using online dating as a primary means of meeting women

I think « decent body » includes the head. lol ! I think both sexes can be superficial but in different ways but theres also decent people out there genuinely looking for a connection. I think its bad manners to demand details of another’s financial situation and judge them on that.

Use it as a complimentary avenue in addition to meeting women in the real world. That way you won’t be left frustrated as online dating heavily favours women given that guys play the numbers game by messaging every women. Both men and women are to blame for online dating being a time waster.

they say that on profiles because they get 100 men messaging them per day and it’s cut down the amount of unwanted messages.

most women on dating websites prefer 5 messages a day from the type of men they want than having to go through 100 messages per day and waste their time reading and replying.

i used to be on online dating sites. i didn’t have those stuff on my profile but i got a minimum of 200 messages per day. after the first week. i felt overwhelmed with the amount of messages and didn’t even bother reading the messages anymore after the first week cos of how overwhelmed i felt. it would’ve taken me maybe 2 hours+ per day to read everyones message, then read their profiles, then come up with a nice reply.

I chatted to a guy on a dating sight who complained about a date wanting to have sex with him too soon, very weird indeed

what made it worse was i would often get mean messages from men when i don’t reply calling me rude for not replying.

if i had a choice over receiving 200 messages a day from every man or 5 messages per day from the types of guys i wanted. i’d prefer the 5.

Well, they raised their standards because we men are acting desperately. We have to let them know that they are not that important otherwise we’re screwed.

When i was using online dating back before it was considered normal i use to contact women who had tags on their bio like « stop asking for sex 2 sentences in » or « if you send dick pics i will block you ».

Because if you are a guy who doesn’t do that, chances are they will still keep chatting to you. Sometimes women need to remove the pricks from a rose to touch the flower lol.

I chatted to a guy on a dating sight who complained about a date wanting to have sex with him too soon, very weird indeed

what made it worse was i would often get mean messages from men when i don’t reply calling me rude for not replying.

It’s difficult for them to relate. Of course some guys are going to go on about how they would definitely reply if someone messaged them, etc. They are probably not getting hundreds of messaged a day.

Do they reply to every spam message in their email with a detailed friemdly reply? It’s hard for them to accept that that is what they seem like – spam. Even if that is not their intention, if you are getting lots of similar messages you have to manage it some way.

If so both genders are just showing their pickiness, way of the world. But the description of Group A was:

So whether low standards means going for men who don’t own shirts or going for men who are ‘nice’ hard to say. By the way I wouldn’t say liking someone nice is having a low standard. Just because you don’t require lots of money or looks in a person doesn’t mean you have no or low standards, your standards may be higher in other areas.