You want more control the situation and sometimes love is not in a controlled environment

Meeting people is a lot of gathering new information in having to sort through a bunch of stuff, and that’s always been very exhausting and so I’ve been the kind of guy who generally just tries to date as little as possible and just get into a relationship with maybe the first person that I go on a date with food doesn’t annoy me so. You’re not like a like a serial dater type. I’m no, not at all. So that’s what I’ve been trying to work toward getting more toward the go on several coffee dates. You know meet a lot of people. Have you know broaden the net talk to people that I might not normally think are my cup of tea and I think a lot of people do that.

Naturally I’ve heard of people who just like they’re on dates all the time. Time and maybe they need to go the opposite direction, and maybe you know limit things down a little bit, but for me I need to go from this very narrow field that I’m always looking at and broaden it outwards, but I guess when you were talking about frank earlier with blind spots, your blind spot as a as a J. Out there right and you’re ’cause. So might be harder that way. You know yours I do not. I’ve never actually taken the test but I’m just guessing what I am, and I’ll take the test afterwards just to see I’ve taken the tests a long time ago and I don’t remember I would say probably a p in the situation more perceiving because I don’t.

Don’t have control and Mlk. Letting go control, but I do think my blind spot in this arena would be that sometimes I have a really hard time making decisions because I’m constantly asking Ooh Gimme. More I’m curious about this now. That opens up another door and I ended up not having boundaries and limits. That’s where I need to narrow it down. What about you? Julie? I’m an EMT J. I’d love to hear that out a day they. Jay Okay. So you’RE J. J. With Frank Yeah Okay so you’re more vegetables. Together, let’s I. Most people go from the I on the EIB. No, we’re going backwards. Let’s go. Let’s do it well. I’m more extroverted.

Love how we’re working backwards

Okay, so then all right. Let’s go to the I and the since we’re on that so frank urine. You’re introvert and it’s not exactly what people think https://kissbrides.com/fi/meetville-arvostelu/ means is not like. You’re at a party and you’re like a loner. At against a wall, talking to a wall what what do you think are the key differences between the I and the E. What it is is that extroverts are kind of always looking. Depending on type, it’s it’s always different, but in the most general sense, the extroverts are looking first and foremost at either the other person, or like the experience outside of them, as the introvert is looking first, and foremost that like what do I want or what do I think is going on here.

Oh, in terms of dating I think a lot of times

What what are my impressions of the person and I? Think the types tend to be just more like looking outward first before they look inward to say, what do I think? Think, whereas the introverts are like a weird other way around where it’s like. How do I feel about this I? Okay now. Let me see if they can prove differently. That’s fascinating because I feel like this is something I pattern I had to unlearn. Is that I would always be wondering on dates. Like what does this person think of me I? Never thought like what do I actually think about them? So that was probably like some of that. E coming through. Especially, if you’re in EJ, that’s like a bit like because when you take the first and last letter together, that’s like a way of kind of clumping all the types together in four.